A Message of Unity Amidst Division
I feel very sad as I reflect on the current political climate impacting our relationship between Canada and the United States. For five years, Leigh Morrow, my co-instructor from Canada, and I have collaborated on our Guided Autobiography classes, creating a beautiful space for storytelling, connection, and personal growth. Throughout this journey, we have built a bridge between our countries through shared experiences and a collective commitment to exploring our narratives.
Many Canadian friends and relatives have expressed confusion and betrayal as the current administration’s rhetoric divides us. Witnessing this strain on the bonds we’ve cultivated over the years—bonds forged through meaningful conversations and enriching life stories—is difficult.
The news we see daily fills many Americans with incredulity and anguish, as our nation's words and actions have created a palpable rift. It’s disheartening to witness how the administration’s approach has led Canadians to focus on shopping locally and reconsider plans to travel to the United States. This sentiment is echoed in conversations I’ve had with my Canadian relatives, friends, and students alike, who feel hurt and betrayed by the rhetoric dismissing our longstanding friendship's value.
Recently I’ve heard stories that capture this anguish—my cousin canceling their cherished trips to Florida, a couple expressing their regret at feeling unwelcome in Oregon in a recent Washington Post article. These narratives invoke a profound sense of loss. How could we go from camaraderie to uncertainty? The warmth and shared history that have marked our interactions seem overshadowed by a political landscape that fuels division.
Yet, amidst these challenges, I want to emphasize the power of empathy and understanding. It is through these qualities that we can foster resilience and hope. Our purpose at The Story Guides has always been to embrace the richness of our stories and lives—joyful and complicated moments. As we navigate this landscape, let us not forget that we are committed to lifting each other and celebrating our diverse experiences.
To my fellow Americans, as the current administration enacts tariffs on Canadian goods and makes provocative statements regarding Canada becoming the 51st state, causing us to have a wide range of emotions, including frustration. Here are some constructive ways to respond to these actions:
Educate Yourself and Others:
Stay informed about the specifics of the tariffs , their implications for both countries' economies, and trade relations.
Fight misinformation and educate the people in your sphere of influence. Share informative articles, studies, or expert opinions with friends and family to foster a well-rounded understanding of these policies' impact.
Support Canadian Businesses:
Visit/vacation in Canada and spend money there.
Reach Out to Elected Officials:
Write. Write. Write. Write letters, make phone calls, or email your local representatives to express your concerns about tariffs and political rhetoric.
Remain in dialogue and support one another.
We should not allow fear and misunderstanding to dictate our interactions. Despite facing unfamiliar challenges, we can strengthen the bonds that unite us. In sharing our experiences and hearts, we can cultivate an understanding that will endure beyond the current circumstances.
Acknowledge the frustrations felt by those threatened by current policies while also promoting optimism about the future.
I want to express my sorrow to Leigh, my friend and collaborator in Canada. I know how much you and our Canadian students value this connection as much as I do, and it pains me to see it tested. However, our shared journey in teaching and learning will continue to be a source of strength. Your stories, insights, and perspectives enrich our classes, reminding us of the beauty of our differences and the common threads that unite us.
In the spirit of collaboration and unity, let us continue finding solace in our community, supporting one another as we navigate these uncertain times. Together, we can build a bridge of understanding that will lead us to more meaningful connections, regardless of our external challenges.
Thank you for being a part of this journey with me. Your stories matter, and I look forward to continuing to explore them together.
With love and empathy,
Lily Bengfort
Guided Autobiography Instructor
